I told off mentally unstable SIL today. Last night I sent her a long text telling her that I was done being a Plan B for her kids and for her to call CPS or an adoption agency if she wants to give up her 15 month old daughter or yet to be born son. She sent me 7 text messages by the time I made it to work at 8am. The first one started off with “but what am I supposed to do” and then by the 7th one she didn’t need me and everything was kittens and rainbows in her world. Apparently now her baby boy’s daddy is gonna support her and the baby once he’s born. Keep in mind, her first baby daddy is a drug dealer and her yet to be born baby daddy spends a lot of time in Mexico “working” even though he’s an American citizen…..little fishy.
I. Told. Her Off. I called her out on her delusions-her thinking that my hubs and FIL are baby killers, that baby boys are bad and mean that you’re bad if you birth one, that her unborn baby daddy was tracking her location via cell phone. I also basically told her that she’s an unfit mother due to her mental illness (paranoid schizophrenia), her chaotic lifestyle, her going back and forth about us adopting her children and her lack of support (because 95% of her family won’t deal with her). I also called her out by telling her that I was sure that she’d not told her CPS worker about her delusions. Of course she said that she had and that they weren’t delusions, she was confused. Since she allegedly has told her CPS worker about her delusions, I threatened to call CPS and talk to them myself. *I don’t have the worker’s name so it would take a lot of work for me to get someone to listen to me but she doesn’t know that.* Well that pissed her off. She told me that me that it’s none of my business (ummm, when you try to give your kids to me PERMANENTLY it becomes my business) and said that she’d sue me for slander if I made a false report to CPS. LMAO!!!!! The last thing that I said to her was that it wouldn’t be a false report if I called.
I cannot explain how much better I feel after telling her off. Am I still worried about her 15 month old and her unborn child? Hell yes, but right now I can’t do much. I am still considering a call to CPS but like I said, she never gave me the worker’s name and she’s never given me her physical address. I’ve tried Google but her name is a very common Hispanic name. I would ask my MIL (not married to FIL) but she is just as bat shit crazy as my SIL. I understand now why hubs and BIL want nothing to do with either of them.
IUI update-literally no symptoms/side effects other than a puffy tummy. Hubs infection is hurting now and he’s peeing all the time like he’s a pregnant woman :-p THe good thing is that our upcoming PCS to Colorado is giving me something else to obsess about 🙂